7 months

The seventh month has definitely been our best one so far with Harper. The other day we ran into this couple at the UPS store who had a 2-month-old baby and I was reminded of how different Harper is now than she was at that age, and how much easier our lives are now that she’s a little older.

She is so curious and interactive. She has a smile for everyone, so we are constantly stopping everywhere we go so she can make eyes at someone at the next table, behind us in line, etc. She has completely taken down the invisible walls that go up between strangers here.

She is an instant conversation starter. I never realized how many other people had babies! We always used to joke that it seemed like more people had dogs. Actually, I think that is a recordable fact in SF, but still.

People always say, “oh she is such a happy baby!” and I love that. Sure, we have our dramatic moments, but mostly she is a pudgy, giggly, adorable little goofball.

We started feeding her more solid foods this month. She hasn’t had a reaction to anything so far, so we just keep introducing new things. She loves getting pieces of fruit in a mesh baggie because she gets to feed herself. She likes carrots, avocados and bananas.

We’ve started giving her bits of our food at restaurants, so she’s already had Chinese and Indian (the non-spicy stuff). It’s nice that she can sit on our laps or in a high chair at restaurants so we can at least attempt to eat at the same time.

She still doesn’t show much interest in crawling, but she can sit up really well and lean over to reach for things. She is super grabby — for my hair, my glasses, whatever is on the table in front of her, or her favorite thing, paper. She’s not allowed to chew on napkins because she eats them!

Her legs are super strong and she loves to stand with our help. I don’t think she’s far from standing by herself with something to balance on.

The big change this month is that she got her first teeth. One bottom tooth popped through and then the other. Pretty soon she will have that ridiculously adorable two-bottom-teeth grin.

We had a couple rough nights when the teething seemed to really bother her, but generally it has not been too bad. I picked up some homeopathic remedies at Pharmaca, and the teething tablets seem to help a lot.

After feeling stretched super thin and longing for some family help and closeness the past few months, I’ve finally started to feel a little more comfortable on our own. The gloomy summer days (weird, I know) have passed and now each day when the fog clears it feels like we have our little piece of paradise here.

We’ve starting putting Harper in the stroller and exploring our neighborhood more — we’re always bumping into our neighbors strolling their kids around. It feels more like home than it ever has. And when we look around at our beautiful bay views dotted with sailboats, the cute park down the street, our neighborhood food truck gathering, the pool where she’ll probably take her first swimming lessons, it seems like not such a bad place for her to grow up. At least for a while.