Harper at 2.5

I just put this in the kids category rather than baby – I guess that says it all.


She loved when grandad played guitar for her.

Harper has changed so much in the last few months. I find myself wanting to freeze her in time when she does something really sweet and funny. She’ll be a total monster one minute and then the next minute she’ll cuddle up and say, “I love you SO MUCH!”

She’s a constant imitator, both of what we say and what she sees on her favorite shows, Daniel Tiger and Peg + Cat. One time my mom walked in the room and she was playing her xylophone like a “pinano” while watching a character play a piano on TV. It was just so precious. I’m not one to use that word often, but there’s no other way to describe her right now.

I do see her trying to exert her will more. Like with very basic things I ask her to do like put her shoes on. She’s testing boundaries and realizing her power. I’m starting to understand all the things I’ve heard about the 3-year-old personality. I’m definitely concerned about how she’ll react to the new baby since she’ll be almost 3 when he arrives. (Oh yeah, we just found out it’s a boy!)

She does not want to talk about having a baby brother at all. She will repeat pretty much anything you say, but if you bring up a baby in mommy’s tummy or being a big sister she just shuts off. It’s so weird. How could she know that?

But we have more pressing concerns right now with potty training. We’ve been putting it off for a while, but I think she’s finally ready (and we’re finally ready to commit).

 

My dad and stepmom came for a visit recently, and they had a lot of fun taking Harper on some outings. The last time Mike took her to the Little Farm she was terrified of the cows, but not this time. She LOVED feeding the animals. She was just cracking up the whole time.

And I know everyone says this, but my god, their energy! I’m still extra tired all the time and I would give anything to suck a little bit of energy out of her.

On the plus side, she has been sleeping so much better lately. Pretty consistent 2-hour naps and longer nights without waking. I don’t know what the secret is with this kid, but I’m just going with it.

She’s still a little daredevil. When we walked around the houseboats in Sausalito she kept going right up to the railings next to the water and poking her head through. I think she would have just jumped in the water if we let her.

Another thing she really seems to enjoy is gardening. She “helps” us pick cherry tomatoes and puts them in the back of her little dump truck.

She is also still very much an outdoors gal. She decided our overflowing geranium plant was the perfect hangout spot and sometimes I find her laying there.

Large trees are not all that common in our neighborhood so when she sees one she will literally go up and hug it.

She still has a great appetite, and it must be fueling her growth because she has really stretched out. She’s pretty tall compared to her peers now, so I think she is going to end up taller than me.

We’ve had her in part-time daycare for a few months now and it’s kind of a mixed bag. They say she is really reserved and plays by herself there, which is the total opposite of how she behaves at home. I think she’d probably open up more if she was there daily but we just can’t afford it. So we’ll see.

This next 6 months will hold a lot of change for this little girl, but she is nothing if not resilient.