Max, 5 and 6 months

OK, get ready for cute overload because I have SO MANY good pics of my kids this summer.

I can’t believe Max is 6 months old, but it’s true. Here he is at 5 months.

And then at 6 months.

He is still our Mr. Smiley Guy.

If you tickle him or do a high-pitched sneeze, he has the cutest giggle.

He’s had a pretty big couple of weeks. First, we started him on solid foods.

I decided to skip the rice cereal this time and just do purees.

Then he got two teeth! So we’ve also given him some mum-mums and crusty bread to chew on.

Obviously the Bumbo is getting a lot of use since he’s still a little tippy.

He loves playing with Tupperware containers and various other things that are not toys.

I have even put him in a laundry basket with some toys, since it is sort of like a mini playpen.

Other times I kind of prop him up in the Boppy so I can play with him.

The teething has definitely affected his sleep, although I would still say he is a much more consistent sleeper than Harper was at his age.

Occasionally he takes a long nap, but his are usually only half an hour. So I am struggling to get much of anything done during the days I’m home with him. But I feel like the alternative is having him sleep less at night, and I don’t want that either.

He has also become really grabby and interested in rolling or lurching for things, so I really have to watch him closely.

He likes to grab his feet, and he can get his toes in his mouth.

He still has really bad cradle cap, so sometimes I put lotion on his head and it makes his hair stick up.

He was 18.5 pounds at his last appointment and pretty tall.

I’m looking forward to what the next few months will bring. Before we know it he will be walking and talking!

Harper has been a handful and a half, but she is also progressing so much.

Her teachers tell us she has completely come out of her shell at daycare, and now she plays with other groups of kids, no problem.

She tells me about her day now, and has gotten a lot better at asking for what she needs.

What’s hard is that she has both an immense amount of energy and a LOT of feelings.

We took a trip to the petrified forest in Calistoga, and without a nap that day she whined/cried/yelled the whole ride home.

So I’m a little nervous about traveling with two little kids for a whole week, but I think the key is not trying to do too much. And snacks. So many snacks.


She calls this her swimming costume. 

Harper started playing soccer at school and I think she would like swimming lessons too. Although I think she would be really great at tumbling.


Toddler lunch of champions. 

She has a great sense of style (hat tip to Grammie!) and she is an amazing artist. I love seeing her creativity shine through.

There are still a lot of kids activities in the Bay Area that we need to explore, so hopefully we’ll get to do some of those things soon. We’re still finding our new rhythm without Grammie and with me working 2 days a week, but we’re getting the hang of it.

More pictures soon of Max’s finished room and our solar panels!

*I also wanted to mention that you can follow me on Instagram. I wish I had more time to blog, but since I don’t I try to at least keep the photos coming.

Max: 3 and 4 months

These last two months have flown by. All the sudden Max is a plump, drool-y baby who can almost sit up and grasp toys in his chubby hands. Looking back at those 2-month photos, he looks so skinny!

Here he is at 3 months.

And then at 4 months.

I just took him to the doctor and he was a little over 16 pounds. Pretty much right down the middle as far as height, weight, and head size. For comparison, Harper was 14 pounds, 10 ounces at her 4-month appointment.

Just like Harper at that age, Max went bald in some spots, but had a swirl of hair in the middle.

He also screams now, for no apparent reason. Can’t wait to see how that goes over in public!

Generally, though, he is sweet and so smiley and giggly. He’s started responding to toy squeaks and peekaboo. So cute.

Last month, Grandad and GB were here, and they got to see what a smiley, happy baby he is.

We took him on all kinds of outings and he was as sweet as can be. I think it helped that he would fall asleep in the car and then be really well rested wherever we went.

We stopped letting him nap in the carrier, and so he switched to taking 4 or 5 shorter naps throughout the day. Much like Harper, he only stays asleep for about half an hour at a time. I’ve basically decided not to fight it. Harper would only take about 2 of those naps a day, which was brutal. At least he gets enough rest in total.

His funny thing lately is falling asleep in the jumparoo. He’ll be bouncing in there and then I’ll look over and he’ll be asleep!

We still have him sleeping in the rock ‘n play at night, but he is going to outgrow it soon. At the end of this month, my mom will be moving back to Kansas (sniff…) so we will move into her room and then move Max into his own room. At that point we can put him in the crib without worrying about him waking up Harper.

We sure will miss our Grammie!

Harper still likes to entertain Max while he lays in the crib, and he likes to watch her, too.

She is still pretty good with him, but I see some jealousy creeping in. Age 3.5 seems filled with whining and tantrums, so we are just trying to power through it.

It is also filled with pink. So much pink. All the sudden every outfit has to be pink, head to toe. She’s big into the princess thing, too, although her version might include cowboy boots and binoculars.

Harper’s diet pretty much consists of cereal, ketchup, and whatever else she feels like eating at any given time.

And it has to be served in the bunny bowl, with the yellow cup and the purple spoon. OK?!

I can’t believe Max will be eating solids soon. I really feel like he is growing up too fast, but what can I do? I just love ’em both and try to appreciate the cuddles when I get them.

Max has been making this face a lot lately.

Talk about a flashback – here’s Harper making the same face.

I have thought for months that it seemed like his bottom teeth might be coming in early, but they never do.

I guess babies are just orally fixated and drool-y in general.

I just started working some short shifts at the store in Sausalito this week. Harper is in daycare full time and I’ll have to find a nanny for Max soon. We’re shifting into a new normal. It’s a little scary, but also good. I just don’t feel like myself unless I’m working, and I really did miss it.

Max: 2 months

I’m almost a month late posting this, so I guess that tells you what kind of month it’s been. Max has been doing really well, but we’ve been working on some improvements to the house and Mike was gone for a few days for work, so we’ve been really busy.

Thankfully auntie Megan was here for a few days. She is so good with Max.

Harper has also been playing with Max a lot. She likes to lay in the bed and pretend to be him. He loves to watch her.

Right around 10 weeks, Max started getting really fussy. I wasn’t sure why, but then I remembered that Harper also had a really difficult time around then. It’s a “wonder week” with lots of brain development, so that makes sleep and everything else more intense. He also got another cold, poor thing, so I’m sure that didn’t feel good.

One thing that has been great about this month is all the smiles. Those baby grins are just the best.

We’ve had fun dressing him in all his little outfits, too. He has quite the wardrobe!

Sometimes he outgrows things after only wearing them once, so we have to keep rotating in new things. I’ve had the hardest time finding socks that fit him, so now he is in a 6-12 month sock. He still likes to be cozy warm all the time.

Sleep also got better this month. I was starting to get pretty fried from all the night feedings, but he has been going longer and longer stretches. Similar to Harper at this age, he sleeps most of the night until an early morning feeding. Sometimes there’s a second one. Once he even slept the whole night!

Naps have been a lot tougher. He will take a long nap, thank goodness. But most of the time we have to resort to wearing him in the carrier. My neck got so strained at one point I could barely move it, so I have been trying not to rely on that too much. But it’s hard. Trying to put him to sleep in his crib does not work at all.

I shouldn’t say he doesn’t nap outside the carrier. It’s more of a battle to keep him asleep. I’m just trying to take that one day at a time. He still seems a little young for a strict routine.

This month he’s been trying really hard to get his hand in his mouth. Two cheers for self soothing!

He also seems a lot more alert and interested in toys. We have what seems like millions, so we’re trying to keep him entertained. Bath time has gotten a lot better, too.

We’ve got him in cloth diapers, although they don’t fit as well after going through another kid. I’m willing to deal with it though after seeing how much money we spent on diapers, sheesh!

I’m looking forward to Max being able to sit up better and maybe hang out in the jumper or some of the other toys we have. He is doing more every day, and it’s fun to watch.

I pulled out the only KU onesie I have because he needs to cheer for the Jayhawks. So far it’s working!

Max, 1 month

I’m a little late posting this, but I’m going on 5 weeks of poor sleep, so I think I can be forgiven.

Mr. Max just had his 1 month doctor’s appointment. He was 10 pounds 12 ounces and 22.5 inches long, so I think it’s safe to say he is growing well. He’s already gotten a cold from Harper, so I guess with a toddler around his immune system will be getting tested often. Props to whoever invented the snot sucker!

Max eats like a champ, though we’ve had some breastfeeding challenges. I saw a lactation consultant (and can we just take a moment to THANK GOD these people exist) and with practice and time, we got through our issues. Honestly, the fact that I had to pump extra bottles was kind of nice because then other people could feed him while I slept.

Also, thanks Obama for the free breast pump!

While the past month has been pretty stressful and sleepless at times, it was nothing like Harper’s overwhelming first month. There is a definite ease with the second baby, and it helps that he is pretty happy and loves to cuddle.

This time I know he will cry for no apparent reason, wake at all times of night, and expel every bodily fluid. Because that’s what newborns do. Accepting those challenges has made it a lot easier to appreciate the good things. I think I spent most of the first week just staring at Max and feeling weepy. Both because he’s wonderful and because it felt instantly like our family was complete. I just felt really lucky that so many of the things I wanted in life came to be.

Harper continues to be great with him. She’s a little rough at times, but she just wants to help. She asks to hold him a lot, which totally melts my heart.

While Harper was kind of an odd baby in the sense of not minding being cold and always wanting to be outside, Max likes to be super warm and he wants to be held all the time. Sometimes that’s hard, but at least he is willing to be worn in a carrier. He just passes out and makes these contented little noises.

He’s already trying hard to hold his head up, and he occasionally smiles. Once I put him on his activity mat and he darn near rolled over. He’s a strong little guy!

Mike’s parents were here for a few days when he was like 2 weeks old, and that was really nice. Since they had another grandson born the day before Max, they are really soaking up the grandbaby time.

Max had a lot of baby acne in the beginning, but now it’s starting to clear up and he’s starting to chub out.

He is bigger than Harper was, but oh my gosh they look so similar. I look back at pictures of her and I can’t tell who’s who. It’s amazing. I’m wondering if that will continue. He’s already getting that strawberry blond colored hair that she got.

As much as I’ve gotten used to my middle-of-the-night feedings with episodes of Felicity in the background (how is it I never watched that?), I am hoping that in the next month Max will start sleeping longer stretches and we can all catch up on sleep a little. Our shift system for nights has been great, but I think we’re ready for the next phase.

And here’s hoping that this little cuddlebug takes long naps when he finally gets on a schedule. And he will be getting on a schedule!

Maxwell Michael Corey

We welcomed baby Max at 8 a.m. on January 5. He was 8 pounds 1 ounce and 20.5 inches long. I wanted to share his birth story because it turned out so differently than what I had pictured and planned for. Despite the fact that I had been feeling like I was going to give birth for about 2 weeks, he had to be coaxed out in the end. I guess he just really likes to be cozy. We have not stopped snuggling him since he was born!

If you’re squeamish you might want to skip this part, but I feel like it’s important to include everything. So, at my 39-week appointment my doctor said that everything looked great and I was basically ready to have the baby. I had been feeling a lot of contractions and I suspected I would go into labor any time. So when she offered to strip my membranes to get things going, I said yes. The next day I lost my mucus plug, so I figured that would be the start of labor. Nope! Not only did it not work, my contractions pretty much completely stopped.

I should mention that this whole time my main concern was having a too-fast labor and not being able to get to the hospital in time. I feel like everyone I talked to with a second baby mentioned the speed. I was supposed to have 2 doses of antibiotics during labor for a positive strep B test, so I thought I might not be able to do that. My reference point was Harper’s birth, since everything happened so fast after my water broke.


Past 40 weeks and feeling like I was out of room!

So when I went to my 40 week appointment at 40 weeks and 5 days with no signs of labor, I suspected that my doctor was going to suggest induction. With my age, gestational diabetes diagnosis and the strep B thing, I knew I would be pushing it to go past 41 weeks. So I thought, maybe by Friday. But she said she recommended induction by Wednesday. And not only that, but she was working at the hospital that night (Monday), so we could actually go in that night for the induction. And that would be the only way to guarantee that I would have her as my doctor. Mike and I talked it over, and even though we were kind of freaked out to go that soon, we felt it was time. I didn’t think 2 days would make much of a difference. So we went home, had a nice dinner, and then headed back to the hospital at 8 p.m.

The nurse they gave me was really wacky — interesting in sort of a Bay Area middle-aged hippie way. But very awkward. She was nice, but she took forever to do all the paperwork and then missed getting my IV in twice. So by the time they gave me the Miso pill it was like 9:45. Side note: I couldn’t believe how tiny this pill was that was going to make me have a baby, and they cut it in half!


Realized later that this bruise was from the missed IVs.

Anyway, we hung out and waited for things to get going, which they did, probably around 1 a.m. By then I had a different nurse, who was super nice and supportive of our intention to avoid pain meds. But I was getting so annoyed at being hooked up to all the monitors, plus the IV for strep B antibiotics. It seemed like every time I moved a little, one of them slipped and someone would come in to fix it. If the baby’s heart rate dipped at all they wanted me to also wear oxygen and it just made me paranoid that they would end up pushing me to get a C-section or something. That part made me really long for laboring at home naturally.

By 2 a.m. they said my contractions were regular enough that I could forego another dose of Miso, so I just kept laboring. I used the birth ball a lot — it was awesome. By early morning the contractions were incredibly strong and close together and I was having a really hard time getting through them. I couldn’t even sit on the ball anymore, I had to stand up and lean on Mike. I was so ready to give up, I thought I must be going through transition. But my water hadn’t broken. With Harper, that was the thing that made everything change in a hurry, so I was desperate for that. I knew I had orders for pain medication at the ready and I was seriously starting to think I would need them, but Mike was very encouraging about the fact that I had done this before and I was going to get through it. I just did not experience that intensity level with Harper’s birth. Hers was WAY longer, but I was able to handle it better.

When my doctor came in at 7 a.m. to tell me she had to leave because her shift was over, I was bummed. But honestly I didn’t care who delivered the baby as long as he came out ASAP! She said I was only 5 cm dilated but seemed to be transitioning. She offered to break my water and I said definitely, yes. She said, I think you’ll have a baby by 10 a.m. At first I thought she had said 8:10 and we all laughed about that. But actually I knew it would be sooner than 10. Pretty much as soon as my doctor left, the contractions were just unbearably strong and I was a total mess. Lots of tears and saying “I can’t do this” and that sort of thing. Thankfully the crazier things got, the more calm Mike got. And the nurse helping me at the time had been there for 37 years, so she was cool as a cucumber. I did not think I could get through it, but before long my body was basically pushing the baby out. It didn’t take long at all before he was crowning and they were rushing in the next doctor. She barely got her gloves on before Max came out at 8 a.m. Maybe in 2-3 pushes. I can’t tell you the relief at that moment.

When Harper was born they took her to be checked, weighed and cleaned right away. But with Max they left him on my chest for a good long time. I really appreciated that.


I think our nurse had a little bit of photojournalist in her – I don’t even remember her taking these pictures.


Grammie meeting Max for the first time.

On reflection, I think my body reacted very strongly to the Miso and gave me contractions that were much more powerful and closer together than with natural labor. I’m not sure it was totally worth it to have no pain meds with that kind of pain. But at least it was over quickly. I still think the best way to labor with a healthy pregnancy is probably home birth. No monitors, no pressure to have interventions that pile up. Just trust in the process. But I’m at peace with this birth. We had a healthy boy in just a few hours.

The other great thing has been how much easier the last few days have been this time around. We were able to leave the hospital a day early, and they hardly bothered us at all while we were recovering. With Harper’s hospital stay, they were constantly interrupting us and we got no rest. Max did cry pretty much all night that first night in the hospital, but that’s how we learned he is a baby that LOVES to be held.

It felt like a miracle when he latched on to nurse pretty much right away. I have some of the same struggles with breastfeeding him as I did with Harper, but for the most part he’s eating great and gaining weight. He didn’t have jaundice and have to be under the lights like Harper. He seems to be a little more chill, but I think his personality is still a big question mark. He sure is a cutie pie, though. I just keep marveling at how tiny and soft he is. I know these moments will be gone so soon, so I am really trying to soak them up.

I was pretty worried about how Harper would react to Max, but she has been such a great big sister. As I suspected, she really wants to help when we are changing his diaper or putting him in his rocker. Sometimes 3-year-old help is not the most helpful, but we indulge her.

Of course my hormones are raging, but it’s very emotional seeing these two together. Our family does feel a lot more complete and it’s just nice to feel like so many of the things I wanted in life have come to fruition. Welcome, Max!

Waiting for baby


Shopping in the city at 37 weeks.

I have 9 days until my due date. Single digits now.

It’s a very strange place to be in…just waiting for your whole life to change. I’m glad I stopped working so early. I still have a couple orders to fulfill here and there, but mostly I can relax and do holiday-related things. Or take a nap.

I realized that my holiday seasons are always insanely hectic because I am either prepping for craft shows or taking a big trip, or both. It’s nice to just chill and bake cookies.

Harper has been super clingy lately, but I can’t tell if it’s because she knows she’s about to lose a lot of my attention or because she is almost 3. She’s in a big “mommy do it” phase. But it’s usually about some mundane thing that seems more about control than anything else. I am no expert with this stuff. I’m just trying to love on her an extra lot. She completely exhausts me sometimes, but she is such an extraordinary little person. It’s so hard to imagine what her little brother will be like. I’m dying to know!

My sister arrives on Thursday. In a perfect world, the baby will come while she’s here. But we all know their timing isn’t perfect!

Stripey baby leg warmers

Unfortunately, the now-defunct Goodsmiths site has finally come down. So a lot of my blog projects that had been published there have disappeared. I’m not going to try to save all of them, but I would like to re-post some patterns that I have posted on Ravelry, and add some new ones. 

I’m gonna start with this baby leg warmer pattern because I enjoyed making these so much for Harper when she was a baby. 

They’re made with a fuzzy acrylic yarn that is machine washable and comes in a lot of great colors. You can knit them up plain or go with the stripe sequence I came up with. And if you like that yarn, you can also get my pattern for stretchy leg warmers that will grow with your kiddo from my Etsy pattern shop

Stripey baby leg warmers
sized for 0-3 months
make 2

Materials:

Lion Brand Jiffy yarn in colors: grape (A), country green (B), silver heather (C), and dark grey heather (D), (or any combination of 4 colors you like)

• Size 10.5 straight knitting needles

• Yarn needle to sew up seams

Instructions:

Cast on 18 stitches, leaving a 14-inch tail so you can sew up the seam at the end. Using a stockinette pattern (knit one row, purl one row), follow this stripe sequence:

5 rows A

4 rows B

2 rows C

3 rows D

2 rows A

3 rows C

1 row B

4 rows D

3 rows A

2 rows C

Bind off on your last row of C. Using your yarn needle, weave in any loose strings to the back side of the piece and snip off the ends. You can actually use these ends to carefully sew up the seam, matching the colors on each side. But if you don’t have the patience for that (half the time I don’t!), you can just use the long tail from the beginning of your work to sew up the seam. 

To make plain leg warmers, follow these instructions. You will only need one skein per pair. 

0-3 months 
Cast on 18 stitches. Knit in stockinette pattern until piece measures  7 inches. Bind off. 

3-6 months
Cast on 20 stitches. Knit in stockinette pattern until piece measures 8 inches. Bind off. 

6-12 months
Cast on 22 stitches. Knit in stockinette pattern until piece measures 9 inches. Bind off. 

Finishing

With right sides facing, use the long tail of yarn you left at the beginning of the piece to sew a seam all the way up to the top. You can use mattress stitch, or your favorite seaming stitch. Then snip off any extra yarn and turn the leg warmer right-side-out. Repeat with the second one. 

*If you don’t want a seam, you can always knit with DPNs or a magic loop instead. 

Some dietary changes

I can’t believe I’ve already passed the 7 months pregnant mark. The rest of the pregnancy has seemed to move pretty slowly and somewhat uncomfortably. But now I actually feel pretty good and time is racing by. One of the reasons I feel better (I think) is that I’m eating differently now. I started this pregnancy 20 pounds heavier than with Harper and was pretty steadily gaining a pound a week, which felt like too much. With it being a lot warmer this time around, I had constant swollen cankles and just felt huge and puffy. So I decided it might help to start cutting carbs out of my diet.

Breakfast and lunch turned out to be a breeze, but most of my dinner recipes that I love to cook have some carbs. So I decided not to mess with dinner much. I switched from cereal or muffins to omelets for breakfast and then a lot of cottage cheese, salads, apples with peanut butter and that sort of thing during the day. The great thing about a low-carb diet is that it’s not a low-fat diet. You can have all the bacon, avocados and ranch dressing you want. So you get to enjoy these really satisfying foods. 

I noticed right away that the weight gain really eased up, even though I was in the third trimester, when the baby gains the most weight. I had just about outgrown all my maternity clothes, but some of them started to fit a little looser. And I just felt better during the day. I had felt so tired the past few months, but suddenly I had more energy. 

So, when all seemed to be going really well, I failed my glucose test. Just barely. It was kind of strange. They take blood 3 times, and only my fasting score was slightly over the limit. But it was enough to qualify me for the “Sweet Success” program they give to moms with gestational diabetes. At first I was PISSED. Mom was out of town and we had just started remodeling our bathroom, so it was already a super stressful time. I just didn’t need anything else on top of it all. But once I took the class where they teach you about what to eat and how to test your blood (4 times a day, eek), I got kind of into it. It’s really fascinating to see how your blood sugar fluctuates throughout the day and how your stress level or exercise can affect the numbers. Last week I got sick and my numbers spiked the highest they’d ever been. I’ve learned so much. So I am trying to turn a negative into a positive. 

The plus side on the diet part is that it’s darn similar to what I had just started doing. The emphasis is on eating more protein and fewer carbs. You still get to eat carbs, but you really have to restrict sugar. And that includes things that we are traditionally taught are healthy, like fruits, milk and yogurt. Obviously, desserts are a no-no. That’s the part that stung. But again, now that I’m not having them, I feel a lot better. For my birthday I did splurge and make lava cakes with vanilla ice cream (I figured a single-serving cake would be better than a whole huge one). And the next day I felt ravenous for something sugary. Amazingly I did not buy a single bag of Halloween candy! We have so few trick-or-treaters anyway that we decided to just skip it this year, and I’m glad. 

I’m trying to shop for more yummy snack foods, and I’m finding that there are a lot of great high-protein choices out there. Cheese sticks, cocoa dusted nuts (which come in 100-calorie packs), organic hummus from Target, cream cheese on brown rice thins — those have all been favorites lately. I got some almond milk so I can have that instead of regular milk in smoothies. I’m really trying to steer away from processed stuff when I do have carbs. I LOVE fruit, so I’m eating apples, pears and bananas when I can. The key is to always have them with a protein. I’ve made some incredible salads. And I really am not a salad person! But when you can pack them with hard boiled eggs, bacon, cheese crumbles, tomatoes, and have them with a rich dressing, they don’t seem so bad. 

I don’t see myself giving up my beloved baked goods altogether. But this has really shown me that I can live without them a lot of the time and still eat really well. I think I can continue on a similar diet once the baby is born and feel a lot better than I did with Harper. I’m still working on the exercise part. It seems like the first thing to go when I’m busy or stressed, but I see now that it has to be part of my lifestyle. 

Unfortunately, my fasting scores are still a little high. So we’ll see if they put me on any medication for the next 8 weeks. Hopefully it will return to normal after the baby’s born. 

If you’re looking for a great low-carb recipe, I can highly recommend these chicken satay lettuce wraps we had the other night. I don’t consider myself a lettuce wrap type of person either, but these were fantastic. Other things that are good this time of year: tortilla soup, beef stew, chili and roast chicken. Apparently Mexican street tacos are great because they come on thin corn tortillas, and some places give you a ton of meat. So I’ve been on the taco diet when we go out. I’ve discovered some really good al pastor at local restaurants. 

I’m sure it will be a challenge to make it through the 8 most holiday-filled weeks of the year on a low-sugar diet, but I feel pretty good about it. 

Best baby gifts, IMHO

Given the incredible baby boom among my friends and family lately, I have been thinking a lot about the best and most useful kinds of gifts you can get for a new parent, especially a first-time one. When I think about all the stuff we’ve acquired since we had Harper it’s pretty overwhelming. But only a few things have been truly useful over and over again.

This list represents super helpful universal gifts that you could give someone, even that person who already has everything. Most are really affordable and some may be life-changing!

• Carter’s jersey baby blankets (top left)
The super popular Aden and Anais muslin swaddle blankets are great, but we ended up using these jersey blankets a lot more, and still do. They come in really cute designs and you can usually find them for a reasonable price at places like Marshall’s and Burlington Coat Factory.

• IKEA bath towel
It has the worst name ever — Stanka — but this towel is cute, gender neutral and super thick considering its $8 price tag.

• Carter’s wash cloths
These are the perfect combination of soft, thin and adorable. Carter’s also makes a discounted version for Target stores.

• Burt’s Bees baby shampoo and body wash
I love this one because it’s gentle and smells great. We use it for bubble bath, too. One bottle lasts a looong time.

• Bath toy set
Bath toys are also a common gift, but I absolutely loved the Very Hungry Caterpillar set. It comes with a cute little book and some squirty animals. So sweet!

Honest Company wipe travel packs
We did the Honest bundle for a while, and in the end it was more than we needed to buy regularly. But it helped me discover these handy travel packs of wipes, which I have shoved in every diaper bag, car pocket and purse I have. They’re also available for $1 each at Target now.

• Planet wise wet bags
These are an absolute must! And it doesn’t hurt to have a few in different sizes. We used them for cloth diapers when we were out and about, and also as a diaper pail for the cloth ones at home. They’re great for holding peed-on clothes during potty training. We probably washed our diaper pail one about 200 times and it’s still going!

• Triple paste ointment
We had very few issues with diaper rash until one period when we could not find anything to help heal a rash that lasted for weeks. We even had a prescription cream! Finally another mom told me about Triple Paste. It’s expensive, about $20 a jar, but it was the only thing that worked for us. I’m a huge fan now.

• Forehead thermometer
Another thing I didn’t know existed until I had a kid. You do not want to mess around with trying to get a temperature from a kid’s underarm or butt when they’re feverish and squirmy. This works with one firm swipe across the forehead. We use it for ourselves now!

Vibrating teether
This feels so good on their gums when they’re teething. The freezer ones are a pain and they didn’t work for us anyway. 

Aveeno baby sunscreen
This sunscreen turned out to be my favorite. A lot of the eco-friendly ones are hard to rub in or leave a chalky residue. But this one goes on really smooth (a plus with a wiggly baby). It’s also really nice to have a sunscreen stick in your purse or diaper bag, just in case. 

• Baby Bjorn or any rubberized bib
Bibs are a dime a dozen as far as shower gifts go. I have a huge pile of them I’ve never used. But these genius bibs with the little trough at the bottom are amazing. They catch all the food goo and then you can wash them out in just a few seconds. 

Placemat for restaurants
This $5 investment will save you so many headaches when you go out to eat. It folds up pretty small in a diaper bag and then you just roll it out on the table and let the kid make a mess on it. It has raised edges to catch any goop. 

• Other feeding items:
Lifefactory glass bottles with sippy caps – We love that these come with a protective sleeve. And when your kid ages out of breastmilk, you can fill the bottles with something else and use the sippy caps instead of nipples. 
Evenflo old-school glass bottles – If you’re bothered by the plastic bottles that come with a Medela breast pump, you can screw these into the pump instead. 
Mesh feeders – These are perfect for baby’s first solid foods. You might need a few once they get teeth!
Snack catchers – I was so excited to discover these. They cut way down on spilled goldfish and Cheerios. 
plastic silverware – We learned that you can never have too many spoons, so just get a whole bunch so they’ll last you a while. IKEA has a nice larger set for toddlers. 
BabyBjorn no-spill cups – wish I’d known about these sooner.

Sun hat with a chin strap
Maybe that sounds obvious, but you definitely don’t want yours to blow away. And you’ll find yourself needing that sun hat a lot if you have a summer baby. 

• Robeez soft shoes
These were the shoes that helped Harper learn to walk and they were wonderful. They slip on over chubby feet and they come in all sorts of adorable designs. Don’t bother getting anything less than a 6-12 month size. They are perfect for that new-walking window of time.

• Slim-fit pajamas with zippers
Do not make the mistake of getting tons of pajamas with snaps. That is such a pain! Always go with zip pajamas. Carter’s makes snug fit pajamas that we really liked. Target’s Circo brand also sells them up to 12 months, I think. And of course if you can afford Hanna Andersson pjs, go for it. 

Hopefully that gives you some ideas next time you need to buy a gift. It’s also a good reminder for myself, now that we’ll have a baby again soon. There are SO MANY products to wade through. It really helps to focus on the things you actually need. 

*More on this topic: useful and not-so-useful items and helpful newborn stuff. Those are more for planning your own registry. 

No. 2

I can’t believe I forgot to mention that we’re having a baby!

One of my lab tests got lost (WTF?) so it took longer than expected for us to reveal the news on Facebook. But yes, Harper is getting a sibling around Dec. 30. We probably won’t find out for a few more weeks whether it is a boy or girl, but we are definitely finding out.

It will be interesting to see if this winds up being a Christmas, New Years, or super late baby. We keep joking that we need a December baby for tax purposes!

So far everything has gone well, although it has been harder than last time for sure. I started my job right around the time I found out I was pregnant, so it was a lot of new things at once. The nausea was a little worse and I feel a lot bigger a lot sooner. I get these pains under my ribcage that I probably didn’t get until I was 6 months along last time. But one bonus is that at 16 weeks I can already feel some little movements.

I’m hoping to start prenatal yoga soon, and I’m thinking it might be fun to take a little babymoon in Calistoga. I hear there is supposed to be a big energy boost in the second trimester, but I’m still waiting for that to kick in…